My Take on the why something so easy and effective gets overlooked...You've had lots of customers.   Hundreds - even thousands of them, right?  Whether you're a professional, a  contractor or merchant, each of your clients is sharing their experience  with their network of friends, neighbors and co-workers. Right now.
 The "How To" books all say  it.  The sales experts in their seminars have told you over and over -  "personal referrals are worth their weigh in gold".  They also tell you the best  time to get referrals is the moment you gain a new, satisfied  customer.
 Each new client is an opportunity  to grow your business the smart way - by inserting yourself into their  conversations with their permission. 
 So why's it so hard?  Two reasons.  
 First reason - fear.  The  fear of losing a prospect is balanced with your knowledge that sales is a  numbers game.  "There will be lots more prospects.  Besides, if they really knew  me they'd have selected me."  It would seem like landing a new account is a lot  scarier than asking an existing customer for a referral.  
 The fear of rejection doesn't go  away after you get the order.  It deepens.  So many business owners who  congratulate themselves for their sales abilities are actually afraid to lay it  on the line when it counts most.  
 Why is this so?  Because once  you've won their account you begin getting to know your client personally and  vice versa.  Their opinion of you is now formed from first hand experience.   
 So if your customer won't give you  a referral the rejection is personal. 
 Second reason - pride.  Some  of us like giving the impression that we're all that.  As a local business owner  we enjoy an image of success.  Sure - we advertise.  And sure we accept  referrals.  But "asking" for referrals would make it look like we need more  business.
 Huh?  Isn't that  ludicrous?
 Yep - it is as silly as it is  widespread.  In fact you probably know some second-generation businesses that  fall into this category.  Junior has done pretty well managing the good will and  clientele carved out by his or her entrepreneurial forebear.  But they are  missing out on the personal touch and are not connecting with their customers  like the ol' man did.  They never had to ask, so they don't.
 Whether due to fear of rejection or  protecting your "image", I'll bet you a buck you aren't following a plan  to:
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Tell them they're valuable to your  business 
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Let them know you'd like them to  recommend you 
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Give them a way to do this  
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Follow an ongoing customer  communications program 
 
 Each customer has been gained with  much effort - and even more sweat has gone into making them happy with your  services.  They expect you to ask them to refer friends to you - and they even  want to do this if you've provided good service.
 Plus as each month passes, more and  more of your customers are affiliating with their trusted businesses through  customer loyalty programs, Web based services and friends who have home based  businesses.  So the longer you wait to start a loyalty program the farther  behind you are slipping.
 The good news is such a program is  both easy and free to start.  YouGottaCall.com was built to  fill this need and allow you to connect with the clients and neighbors who refer  business to you.  Plus you can benefit the charitable organizations that your  customers and friends support so everybody can benefit.
 What's more, you can get started  inviting your network in a matter of minutes. 
 Oh - if I owe you a buck, just let  me know - and share your referral system techniques with your neighbors in the  next issue of the YouGottaCall "Connect-gineTM" newsletter.